Deianeira
The daughter
of king Oeneus of Calydon and Althaea, but sometimes it was whispered that
Dionysus was her real
father. Deianeira had many sisters and brothers: Toxeus, Agelaus, Thyreus,
Clymenus (or Periphas), Meleager, Gorge, Eurymede and Melanippe.
Althaea died of grief when Meleager died, still a young boy, and his sisters
turned into guinea hens out of sorrow. Dionysus then intervened and spared
Deianeira and Gorge.
Deianeira was very beautiful, and both Heracles
and the river god Achelous wanted to marry her. A fight broke out between
the two, and Achelous transformed himself into a snake and then a bull. Heracles
managed to break off one of the bull's horn, and so won the battle.
The couple lived in Calydon for a few years, but when Heracles killed a local
boy by mistake, they were forced to leave. When they reached the Euenus river
they met the Centaur
Nessus. When he saw the beautiful Deianeiera he tried to rape her after he
had carried her across the river, but Heracles killed him with an arrow, its
tip had been dipped in the blood of the Hydra.
The dying Centaur gave Deianeira a piece of cloth soaked with his blood, and
told her to keep it. With it, he said, she would have Heracles' love if she
ever came near to losing it.
Heracles and Deianeira settled in Trachis where they had several children:
Hyllus, Ctesippus, Glenus, Hodites and Macaria. Heracles often went away on
various adventures, but he always came back.
After many years, Deianeira was horrified to hear that her husband had taken
a young wife, and that he was coming back with her. The young bride, Iole,
was also rumoured to be very beautiful, and Deianeira was at her wits end.
When she had made sure her husband was really coming with Iole through a servant,
she put the Centaurs cloth in a barrel of water, and then put a shirt in it
that she sent to Heracles.
When Heracles put the shirt on it stuck on his skin and caused him great pain.
When he tried to take it off, pieces of his own flesh came with it. He made
it to Trachis, only to find that Deianeira had hung herself when she had realised
what she had done.
Heracles made a funeral pyre for himself by Mt. Oeta, and then ascended it.